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How often should married couples have sex?

There's no right and wrong answer to this question. The ideal solution is when both people in a relationship are happy about how often they have sex.

In some relationships this can be everyday. In others it is once or twice a week. In yet others, it's once or twice a month. And for others, it can be less frequent than that.

Remember, too, that there are many people with no or low sex drive who are happy with their lives. Their relationships are not sex-driven. If they can find friends or partners with similar interests, and a similar lack of interest in sex, they can have great relationships

The frequency of sex varies in the same marriage depending on the couple's age and health, whether the woman is pregnant, whether there are young kids taking up most of the parents' time at home, how busy the husband and wife are with their careers, how much stress they are experiencing. A husband and wife who have settled into sex twice a month sex might increase to every day when they are on vacation and able to relax and give each other time.

There is obviously a problem when one partner wants more sex than the other. This causes frustration and resentment. It might lead to extra-marital affairs and the breakup of marriages. Sex is not just about frequency but quality. Is lots of bad sex better than no sex? For some it is, for others it's not.

Next question

I have been married for 20 years and my sex life is routine. Can a great sex life be revived? Can we find passion again?

More questions

  • I am from a very traditional family that never talked about sex. My wife has asked me to lick her down there in her private area. Is this normal? Is it dangerous?
  • My husband wants me to touch and stroke his thing but I am afraid of it. I am so scared I don't think I am doing it right.
  • My wife says she enjoys our sex but she says I rush. She wants more foreplay before we have intercourse. I find foreplay really boring. I can't wait until it's over so we can have real sex. How do I tell her I don't enjoy waiting.
  • My wife wants to get a dildo. Does this mean she is not satisfied with my equipment?
  • Do men leave their wives for a mistress?
  • How can I tell if my lover is serious about leaving his wife?
  • I have fallen in love with a married man. He says he loves me and he hates his wife. He has asked me to wait five years until he divorces her. Is this reasonable?
  • How do cheating husbands live with themselves?
  • Why do men love phone sex and cybersex?
  • I know my wife is cheating. I have proof in the form of hotel receipts, credit card statements, emails, text messages, and notes from her lover. I want to confront her. I am willing to forgive her if she stops. What should I do?
  • Can a man love two women at the same time?
  • What is the most common problem between married people?
  • How important is female orgasm in a marriage?
  • How many couples talk freely and openly about sex?
  • Why are so many middle-aged men interested in younger women than their wives?
  • How do I get my spouse to lose weight?
  • How do you know when your marriage is failing?

By Giles Devos

The stuff of life

FIJI Water Company

Love affairs: Love affairs are a massive drain on your financial and emotional resources.

What seemed fun and an escape for a while soon becomes a living hell as lies become more and more complicated, and your double life becomes impossible to manage.

We show you how to end your affair now in a way that is fair to your wife and family, to yourself, and to your mistress. Your mental torment will only end when the affair ends and you rebuild trust.