Long, slim legs in sexy lingerie
Lingerie is a win-win situation for men and women. Men are visual and physical beings. They are turned on by clear visual cues and signals. Watch how every straight male head turns when a woman in a tight skirt, black stockings and high heels enters the room. A guy might be sitting with his wife, but he won't be able to stop himself looking at a sexily dressed woman.
Black stockings and heels
Why does this help women? Guys are easy to please. It does not require rocket science or anything beyond psychology 101 to turn on a guy. If his interest has been waning, lingerie, figure-hugging outfits, stockings, and high heels will have him begging for you.
There's no need to ask your man if he wants you to dress for sex and seduction. Just do it. In an instant, the uninterested couch potato will be transformed into a lion ready to prowl the savannah. He'll salivate, he'll study every curve of your body, he'll undress you with his eyes. He'll run his hands over your stockings, enjoying the feel of silk or nylon beneath his finger tips.
His eyes will settle on the places where sexy fabric meets female flesh: the tops of your stockings, the edges of your bra, the line of your panties. He'll want to run his hands over the fabric, reaching inside to touch your warm, secret places.
You need only utter the words, "I'm getting wet for you" to make him go crazy with desire. But don't let him touch or taste just yet. Let him enjoy the visual feast. Cross your legs high, let a high-heeled shoe dangle from your toes, let him glance up and along your legs. Even if he is eager and chomping at the bit, don't let him rush. Seduction takes time.
Victoria's Secret lingerie show
Soon he'll be begging for you. He'll say he has to have you, he can't control himself. If he's used to having his way, getting too quickly to the in-out moment, help him slow down, let him know he's in for a feast and a treat. You dressed for him, you got ready for him, rubbing scented oils onto your body to make your skin soft and fragrant. You trimmed or shaved your p-ssy so he could feast his eyes on your lips, see your glistening wetness, feel your arousal with his fingers and tongue.
This is where men will learn there is so much more to sex than getting it hard and ramming it home. It's about building intense desire and longing, ratcheting up the tension, making him feel more and more special, more and more male. Let him know that he alone is allowed to touch and see what he is seeing. No other man goes there. Your body is his to enjoy. You are giving it to him willingly but he has to give you what you need and want.
Slim black legs in lingerie
You want your body to glow and tingle, you want blood to swell your p-ssy, you want each stroke and touch to send shivers through your body, you want to reach that place of total release and letting go.
This is where sex becomes an intimate dance, each partner encouraging the other to explore, open up, put their desire into words, "I am going to ...", "I want to ...", "Show me your ...".
Very soon, your man's desire will be peaking, he'll want you in the way he knows best, to f-ck you, be inside you. A few more minutes and there'll be no stopping him. If you trust each other completely, tell him to feel how wet you are, then show him how you like to touch yourself, where to apply pressure, how to rub to make you cum. Tell him you want him to suck on your cl-t before he puts his c-ck in you.
Crossed legs in purple stockings
He'll be learning, but it won't seem like a lesson, he won't feel as though you are telling him what to do. It'll be more like you are sharing your body's deepest secrets with him. He will really want to know how to touch you so that it gives you maximum pleasure.
If he asks you to put him in your mouth, express pleasure while you are doing it, "Mmmmm," you'll say while looking into his eyes. This will make him feel like a king and conqueror; he won't want to be anywhere else but with you, doing what he's doing.
Topless beauty in seductive thigh highs
The f-ck itself will be fantastic, both of you as aroused as you can be. Help him go slow at first so he doesn't shoot his load too quickly. Once he's relaxed he'll be able to stroke before coming. Keep some of your lingerie on for him to see and touch while he's inside you.
As he builds speed, pushing into you with strength, push back, riding the moment with him. If he needs encouragement, tell him, "Come baby, come", not as an order but as a gentle hand to help him along.
When he shoots his load, trembling as he he does so, tell him it was fantastic, tell him you love him. Hold each other closely, enjoying the afterglow. Nap if you'd like to. And remember, have water or drink by the bedside. This kind of sex is thirsty work.
Lingerie love, or any kind of erotic enjoyment with a partner, is a voyage of discovery that depends on mutual trust and excellent communication. If you are loving it, chances are your partner is, too. If it's uncomfortable or unpleasant for you, then your partner probably thinks the same. Keep talking, keep testing, keep loving.
Good luck, with sensual lingerie sex!