Why men and women love black stockings
"What can I do for you, baby?" asked my latest lover, a tall, slim blonde of 44 . She had everything a discerning man requires: well-paid job in advertising; great taste in clothes, food, and wine; an even, loving temperament combined with a fiery passion in bed; topped with a genuine desire to please her man. So what could she do to make life better for me?
Simple. "Darling, I told her. I want you to go online, browse the Wolford and Stockingirl websites and buy the sexiest black stockings and thigh highs you can find. Then, I'll take you shopping for beautiful high heels, not hooker shoes, but sexy shoes by Jimmy Choo, Blahnik, or Louboutin."
"Oh baby," she cooed, "You'd buy me Jimmy Choo if I wear black stockings for you?"
One condition
"I'd not only buy you Jimmy Choo," I told her, "I'd do anything you want. But there's one condition."
"One condition?" she asked. "What might that be?"
"Whenever we go out or whenever we spend a relaxing evening at home, I'd like you to meet me wearing stockings and heels and a sexy dress. I don't know how long you'll get to keep the stockings on, but that's how I want you to be when we meet."
"Is that all?" she asked. "That's the one condition? It's so easy. I'd love to wear stockings and heels for you, baby. Nothing would give me more pleasure."
I guarantee, even if you're staying in for the evening and there's nothing more on the agenda than watching a dvd, nibbling on snacks, and sipping Chablis, if your woman is dressed in stockings and heels, you're going to love your evening. Ask her to stretch out on the couch and rest her legs on yours. If she does that, you'll be able to cruise through the dumbest chick flick. You'll be stroking your sweetie's legs, savoring the softness and texture of nylon or silk beneath your finger tips.
Stroke her feet
You'll slip her high heels off her feet and stroke her toes, stroke the arches of her feet, grip her feet firmly in your hand and massage. A woman's feet are at their very best in exclusive stockings and thigh highs. So soft, so sexy, so inviting.
Preparing for pleasure
Paying attention to a woman's feet and legs, gently caressing and kissing, will prepare her for the pleasure to come.
A movie is about long enough to get your woman ready for you. Each stroke of your hand will have her purring with pleasure, writhing for more intimate contact. Before long your hand will wander upwards and you'll feel the warm moisture that tells you your woman is ready for you.
Don't rush your woman
In love, you shouldn't rush. Take your time, enjoy the build-up, the glow, the tingling excitement of knowing what's to come. Is there anything more extraordinary, anything more earth-shattering than the woman you love giving herself to you, surrendering her body so that you can please and pleasure her? We don't think so. It's ultimate pleasure, top of the list of all longings and desires.
Depths of delight
Men, sadly, are prone to rush, and by doing so they miss out on the depths of delight and satisfaction that a woman can take them to.
When that urge to put it in takes over a man's head, he should resist it and focus on intensifying his partner's pleasure. A man is equipped with fingers and a tongue. These can give a woman inordinate pleasure.
Woman's pleasure a priority
Bring your woman to climax first, then when she has melted before your eyes, she will give herself totally to you. She will open for you, take you, give you all that you need.
A man who can bring his woman to orgasm holds the secret to lasting love. The female orgasm builds attachment between a man and a woman. If your woman has had men before you, and the chances are she has, it is likely that none of them has been able to bring her regularly to climax. She of course will know what orgasm is through her own discoveries with her fingers or a toy. She will wonder why she so easily can bring herself to climax while the task seems beyond the ability and patience of most men.
This is where you, her hero, will step in and provide what she needs. Part of the bargain for your patience, your loving care and attention, and your obvious desire to give your woman ultimate pleasure, is that she will give you exactly what you need and want.
For me, it is simple: I want a beautiful woman in black stockings and high heels. Nothing more, nothing less.
